For the first time in 6 years since me and hubby became lovers (then a couple after 4 years of engagement), we wont see each other personally for two weeks. The reason: what else but work.
I never hesitated to give him the nod when he told me the situation on why he has to leave to La Union a couple of days ago. It's an 8-hr ride from here and I am pregnant so it's impossible for me to come and see him whenever I want. But then, thankfully, I'm not that emotional compared when I was pregnant with Jian which took me a lot of times crying whenever hubby will leave and come back after 12hours. And a nanny for my kid is a blessing so I am positive that everything will be smooth for two weeks. Talking about God's plan, who am I not to let it happen right? But of course I miss him. The rub on my back and his massage on my feet every night... My waking up early to cook for his breakfast and those morning kisses.. Haay, its the small things that counts when you and your partner's far from each other.
Now, I am a believer of the quote: "Absence makes the heart go fonder". I don't want to sound so motherly and clingy but I guess its just a girl thing or a woman's instinct to protect and make sure that everything is okay with the one they love. I know he can do a lot for himself, but I just can't help to care. Well maybe dealing with this for the first time makes it more difficult than ever but I guess its just a matter of time when I can rest assure that everything is going to be fine.
In the mean time, I suddenly had a time to go out and have my nails done but unfortunately, the manicurist did a not so nice job. Just think about a couple of toes and fingers swollen. Too bad for a broken-hearted momma. Sigh! Jian's the only one who's making me happy right now. He did not have any tantrums since his daddy left. Now its making me think how spoiled he is with his dad. Hindi sya maka-biglang iyak kapag may di sya makuha. He's such an angel. Obedient, sweet and all, minus his Dad. =( Aww, malungkot parin...
We'll be waiting for you to come home, daddy,and celebrate valentines day with us...
We miss you and we love you so much!
Hugs and Kisses from Jian and me. =)
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late na ako sa balita..buntis ka pala sis..ilang months na?congrats po..^_^ anyway, as for the topic..kaya mo yan..two weeks would be fine..atleast pagdating ng hubby mo eh..mas masarap ang lambingan nyo..ayt?^_^
dalaw lang!
more ingat!
aww... mahirap talaga malayo sa piling ng iyong minamahal... pero siguro dapat ka na rin masanay ate. baka next time, sa mas malayong lugar pa madestino si kuya mike.
God Bless!
I can understand you missing him. My husband was only home on weekends for 3 years. The weeks dragged by and the weekends flew by! Subscribed to your feed. Found you at the Follow Me group at MBC. Please stop by and visit at http://nobirthcontrol.blogspot.com. Thanks!!
I was going to subscribed, but your button doesn't work at the top. I'll add you to my google reader insteader! Sorry about that!!
Goodness! We're late on the report lol. ;D
Congrats on your pregnancy!
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